I often hear this phrase, "sorry, I don't speak English very well", especially from ESL students.
I like to ask, is there a legit meaning or a reason behind this phrase? What are they trying to say? Do they feel that by saying this, it is an ok sign to speak bad English? So, if I don't say that phrase, I have no right to make mistakes? And, do they expect to make improvements by having people go easy on them all the time?
Whenever I hear this phrase, it bugs me. It's not acceptable; especially from ESL students. It's not a right attitude towards learning a language; or learning anything for that matter. It's a sign of shying away from challenges. By saying "sorry, I don't speak English very well", they are basically backing off from opportunities that will improve their language skills. I mean, students' jobs is learning, and making mistakes is a way of learning. Say if people do slow down their talking speed and simplify their use of words, is that what they want to learn ultimately? A slow and easy English? I highly doubt it.
Go ahead and throw what you've got. So what, if you speak broken English out there? Language is just a tool anyway. As long as communication is working, there's no good or bad, right or wrong.
Interestingly, human communication has only 5% to do with words. The rest are body postures, facial expressions, and tonalities.
So, why even bother saying "sorry, I don't speak English very well"? Stop that nonsense right now.
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I once heard a funny story that can be a sequel to this post--for the advanced ESL speakers. A friend of mine, who's Asian and was born in America, said he frequently encounters Americans who comment that "your English is really good!"
His response to that is, "Thank you. You too!"
Cousin
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