What Were They Thinking?

I had a hot pot dinner with a couple of my girl friends tonight. One of the girl was complaining about his boyfriend all night long. According to her story, the current guy, whom she has been dating for 4 years, is everything she doesn't want as a boyfriend. He is not romantic, he is not sensitive, he is dull, and he is not handsome. Despite all these reasons, she is still with him.

When I was with my ex-girlfriend, I gave her everything I had in mind for my perfect girlfriend. I gave her romance, I gave her surprise, I gave her careness, I gave her entertainment, and I gave her space and freedom. I rode 40 min bike to her place just to see her. I made note of her schedule so I won't mess up with her day. I asked about her family so I will understand her more, and I offered to introduce my close friends hoping she will understand me better too. Despite all my effort, she left me after 2 months.

What were these women thinking?